She accepted my friend request, and I messaged her saying "Hey, Katy, I accidentally came across your profile and I was like "Hey! That's that one girl who used to float by me everyday at the waterpark!" Hahaha...that was a great summer. (I'm assuming you do since you accepted my friend request). So, what have you been up to for the past...FIVE years? ;)"
Then she replied back a couple hours later saying "hahahaha heeey! yeah i remember you! lol i havent been up to much, just busy with school adn stuff! how about you!?"
So...is she excited to hear from me? We went out on one date when she was 14 and I was 16. Now, she is 19 and I am 21.
I replied back to her "haha...I haven't been up to too much either...lately! School has kept me pretty busy. So, how is college life?"
I got on myspace a couple days ago and it says that she read my message. However...She didn't comment or message me back. She talked to her friends though on myspace. So...what gives? I thought she was happy to hear from me? Why would she not repsond back to me? Anyway...
Well...I just sent her another message today saying "Hey Katy, are you enjoying you week off from school? What did you do for Thanksgiving?"
Well...she read this message too, but she still didn't reply back.
She fills out these polls though on her bulletin, and she always says that she cried today and that she is "having the worst f*cking day ever." Should I send her a message saying "Hey, sorry you had a bad day. Try to crack a smile every once in a while, k? Cheer up, Katy! :)" I just want to be friends with her....Girls, would it make her happy if I sent that message to her, or does she want me to leave her alone forever?
I think that is a long time for her to be AWOL if she was interested.
Leave it alone for a couple of weeks and then message her back. The reason that she might be having the "worst ******* day ever" is because of boy problems, and she probably doesn't want to talk to any boys. It also might be something else.
Don't stop talking to her for good. Maybe in a few weeks just send her a message like, "Hey, how are you? Want to meet up sometime?" Or something like that.
She's probably just really kinda paranoid (really no offence), and you're just being nice and she probably just thinks you're being annoying and/or clingy. And that's a really cute message but since she already thinks you're clingy, you probably shouldn't send it or she'll think you watch her in her sleep, too! Hope things with her get better. :)
About her not msging you back, she might have been caught up in something and forgot to msg back. It happens. or maybe she was too lazy.
If she's filling out polls that show that shes upset, she won't be in the mood to talk to anyone about anything else.
Just don't msg her about it. It'll make you seem like your constantly on her page.
I don't think she wants you to leave her alone forever. Just leave it alone till she msgs you back. It might annoy her if you keep sending her msgs. Besides you guys just started talking again after 5 years.
If she messages you back that's cool,
but you honestly don't know this girl:
People change soooo much in five years.
look think about it this way, see sometimes whan someone annoys you, you eventually stop answering those messages. im really sory bud, but the message she sent you back looks like she wasnt soo exxcited.
Sorry.
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