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Is it technically physical abuse?

Wednesday Mar 17, 2010
  • Ok.I have this friend and he got 3 F's on his report card November 20, 2008. So when hegot home his parents didnt want to see his report card, but his dad saw it anyway and took a belt and hit my friend in the legs arms and stomache like 10 times. He had marks for like 2 or 3 days after that. Well when his dad was taking him to basketball practise my friend was listening to his iPod and his dad was trying to talk to him and he couldnt hearhim because of his iPod and so his dad grabed his iPod and threw it outthe window of the car. When he got home from basketball practise his dad said to him, "Your not going to be anything when you grow up. Your gonna be a peice of **** homeless on theside of the road." then he thought it would be funny to grab his face and say "Look at michael isnt he a dip ****? Yes he is." So when my friend was telling me this story he got up to go through away his trash he was limping. He was limping the hole day. Is it abuse?


  • That is abuse physically, and emotionally. My husband when through this abuse, very bad, by his stepfather. He was the oldest of 7 the other six was the man's biological kids. My husband was used as a step stool, a foot stool, he slept in a backhouse with no doors, when it was freezing, he wouldn't be allowed to eat, anad had to eat his siblings leftovers.


  • Yes that is when you see your friend limping that isn't tough love you need to report it or talk to your friend and have him report it if you dont something worse will probably happen to him..


  • yes he needs to tell a her) one day i got an e-mail from her she has bruises everywhere her mom teacher so he can contact the authorities my friend was abused her nose got chopped off by her mom she told the teacher and got sent somewhere else (to my school) ten yrs l8ter she is back at the same moms house( i miss her) her mom is abusing her she has had sex 10 times and got high and shes only thirteen this is what happens when you dont inform ppl! ur life slowly dies


  • Yes.That is physical and emotional abuse.You need to get help for your friend as soon as possible.


  • A spanking on the bottom is one thing, but what that dad did was full out whipping. Punishment shouldn't leave someone bruised or limping. I know it's hard, but you need to report this. Your friend will probably be too afraid of being beaten to do it himself, but he shouldn't have to live with this. Tell somone as soon as you can, because your friend will appreciate it in the end.


  • I agree with the first answer. Help is needed for your friend immediately. talk to your local authorities or even school counselors about it.

    Go to a meeting or two by yourself with the school counselor, then get your friend to show up to the next few. Let him express what he is feeling about his father.

    His father's behavior is unacceptable, so do something. Otherwise, what could happen to michael? He could potentially develop emotional issues later in life, like suicidal thoughts/tendencies, depression and a number of other things I cannot list off the top of my head.


  • That is abuse. It is very serious. This abuse will leave scars on your friends self esteem, confidence and will most likely make him feel very insecure. I know this because I was abused as a child. I am 22 with a child of my own and still dealing with things. Is there an adult that you trust to talk to about this? Your friend prob. knows that this is unacceptable behavior if he's telling you these things. But try to be his support and def. try to talk to an adult about this. You are an awesome friend. He is very lucky to have you.







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